Hi Ashley -
I definitely think theat you should take a look at the Kaeeler Tavern, especially in memory of your father. Ask questions and see if you can talk to past brides to see what they did to address some of your concerns. I would investigate the location though. Especially if you feel that it will have the tone and feel for the vision you are trying to capture. Good luck!
The Inn at Longshore
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