I was recently married in Sonoma at a private estate with a beautiful vineyard and charming barn that I would highly recommend. It's called Atwood Ranch, and you can visit their website to learn more at http://www.sonomacatering.com/weddings.html. It was an amazing venue that our guests still talk about.
Another venue in Sonoma that is also a great spot is Kunde Estate's Boot Hill. You can have the ceremony in an VERY old church (http://100layercake.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/nandn3.png) and the reception on Boot Hill (http://www.kunde.com/weddings-and-events/wedding-and-event-planning/boothill.asp) Best of luck!!
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Moon Mountain has a wonderful big Yellow house and grand views. Also, Lavender Hill in Santa Rosa and Sobra Vista in Sonoma. Hope this helps.
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