Hi. Not sure if this would be a fit for you but check out www.silverhearthlodge.com. They are an outdoor wedding venue, the only private mountain top wedding venue in all of the south east, VERY reasonably priced and many wedding/receptions there are conducted more like a family reunion focusing on fun in a casual atmosphere. They are currently offering an [unpublished] 50% of the reception event price so this might help. Because of the facilities, it can be both "formal" and "informal."
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