Wedding Questions

In what order do you mail them?

Posted in Cleveland, OH, USA
Emptyprofileicon Jessi Umbenhour Middleburg Heights, OH, USA

In what order do you mail them?
Everyone is telling me something different.
Save the Date
Invitation & RSVP
All together

4 Replies

Emptyprofileicon Andrea Vagas Youngstown, OH, USA

1. Save the Date
2. Invitation/RSVP.

The Save The Date gets the date on people's schedules so they keep that date open. The invitations come after to give details. You don't HAVE to do a Save The Date. Two month's notice for a wedding invitation is sufficient.

Good luck with you planning and congratulations!


Emptyprofileicon Mallary and Weaver

We sent Save the Dates that were magnets. Our guests loved them. Then a couple months later we sent out our Invitations.


Emptyprofileicon Donald and Veronica

Save the date at least 6 months before the wedding.
Invitations with RSVP cards at least 2 months or 1 1/2 months before wedding for an accurate head count with a return date on them (please included postage on your rsvp cards).



Emptyprofileicon Jessi Umbenhour Middleburg Heights, OH, USA

Thank you everyone so much you have been a lot of help!
And thank you so much about the RSVP/Stamp info, I wouldn't have thought of that.


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