As far as private homes, I would say that you would have to know someone or a relative with a nice piece of property to host your wedding and for space to stage the caterer. I am not sure how many guests or where the ceremony would be, but there are some lovely and unique venues which are restored homes in Fairfield County...one is The Loundsbury House in Ridgefield, or Burr Homestead Mansion in Fairfield, or Bernard's in Greenwich. They are all refurbished old homes which house food and beverage options and operations.
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