Don't waste time looking at the DeKoven Center chapel if you're not being married by a priest or pastor. Sadly we wasted our time since no where on their website do they mention this, nor on the phone when you make the appointment or when you get the tour. Only when you read the contract right before you sign it!!!!!! This caught us off guard since they go out of their way on their website to act like everyone is welcome.
Their brochures actually DO say that they allow civil ceremonies. We wasted our time as well with the tour, numerous phone calls/emails to discuss details, and I too was caught off guard when I was ready to sign the contract and send it in!! Wish I would have seen your post last winter!!