We are having our wedding at The Manor at Catlin Court in Glendale, AZ. They are very affordable and you can bring in your own food and drinks. The provide the tables, chairs and linens. They have a lot of different centerpieces you can use or you can use your own. You can have your ceremony inside or out. It is a great place and I am looking forward to having my wedding there next month. Hope that helps! Congrats!
You should try Casa Bella Private Estate in Peoria. Not sure your budget but it is gorgeous and one of a kind venue. I just had my wedding in May there and it was perfect. They allow you to bring in your own cater & I believe alcohol. You just have to use their bartender.