I just did an event on a green (I don't know which hole) at Sycamore Hills Golf Club. Bridgewater has also allowed that situation. I'm guessing if you call to courses around you could get more info. It would help emmensly if a family member or friend were members to the golf club. I would check with Chestnut Hills, Cherry Hill, Orchard Ridge, Bridgewater, Pine Valley, Auturn Ridge, and of course, Sycamore Hills. Here's a picture of the Sycamore Hills event!
I once went to a wedding that was on the driving range at the Golf Dome. It had the feel of being outside without the worry of the weather when having a wedding outside. Granted, the sunshine was sorely missed. Good luck!
It MAY SOUND weird but having a wedding in a hole, is agreta idea, something very original, just with the right decoration you can turn it into a very romantic enviroment, and of course you can do it. Good luck