I strongly suggest the http://www.lsa.umich.edu/mbg/plan/rentals.asp Mathhaei Botanical Gardens & Arboretum in Ann Arbor. It's beautiful, in a fairly secluded area that isn't hard for guests to find. You'll save a ton of money on flowers, as you'll be surrounded by them. They are both a wedding and reception site. The kitchen is a little small, but definitely do-able. You have to have your food catered, but that also means if you really want to budget you can have family make food etc. They don't provide staff to cook or serve alcohol. So, you have to get your own bartender too, and provide your own alcohol. If you use both outside and inside for the reception area it really gives you all the space you need for 75-100 (that was around the size of my wedding). Now, this is a site I looked at but didn't book. But it was our 2nd choice. We ended up jumping the broom at The Gem Theatre in Detroit. Congrats on your marriage!
Written on Jul. 10, 2010