My reception (2008) was at Tuckahoe Woman's Club - loved it.
My sister's reception was just this past weekend at Main Street Station - loved it.
We both brought our own caterer (Sam Edwards Catering) and had over 200 guests - cocktail buffet style.
Hope this helps and good luck with the rest of your wedding planning!
You may look into the Tuckahoe Women's Club. We had our reception there and they were amazing!!
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