Jason's is very nice, fairly private. We had a rehearsal dinner there and everyone loved it. It's not far from Marin Civic Center.
oops, thought you meant Marin County. For SF, Max's is really fun, the waiters sing opera.
Near San Francisco City Hall, in Hayes Valley, fo rlunch:
Absinthe has a private room you can rent for a family lunch or just reserve a big table
Zuni is nearby but they don't usually like to take big parties, depending on how many people are in your group
Hayes Street Grill
Stelline for casual italian
Caffe Delle Stelle
The Grove for super casual
Thanks for your tips~~~
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