We are parishioners of La Purisima, and from what we know, at least one of you getting married has to be a practicing Catholic (baptaized and confirmed) and a parishioner of the church.
Both of you would have to meet with the parish office to create an appointment for the required engagement/marriage preparation classes.
Out of the Catholic churches in the area, they are pretty with who they allow to marry in theirhurch.
That's why ended up at Holy Family Cathedral.
Good luck to you. God Bless
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