Rita and Joe's in Jersey City is a good option. They have a party room too. Very reasonable and good food. www.rita-joes.com
I no longer live in Hoboken, so I am not sure if it still there, but I had my older son's Christening at Portofinos. It was down at 700 Clinton Street.... Food was great, private back room, affordable... Good luck.
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