I know it is not a barn setting, but I think that Weller's Carriage House does lovely outdoor ceremonies. The grounds are beautiful. http://www.wellersweddings.com/pages/body_ceremonies.htm
Camp Dearborn in Milford, MI is an outdoor setting and your guests can rent the cabins to stay overnight if they'd like. They also have a rustic gathering hall called the Chalet that you may be able to rent out.
You can also try Erwin Orchards in South Lyon www.erwinorchards.com. I think they have a pole barn they rent out.
Or Sugarbrush Farm in Ypsilanti www.farmerjoessugarbushfarm.com
My name is Kathy Byrum from Dream Wedding and Event Planners in Canton, Michigan. I have extensive experience with outdoor, tented weddings. I planned and coordinated several last year, and one was in Ann Arbor. I also planned and coordinated a wedding at Cobblestone Farms two summers ago. Attached is one of the pictures. If you would like to discuss, you can call me at 734.582.0200. My website is www.DreamWeddingPlanners.com
hey leannlacie! do not hesitate to book misty farms. it's AMAZING and definitely the new go-to spot for an outdoor wedding in the area. i did one this past fall and people went ballistic over it. i had my own wedding in my a2 backyard, but had misty farms been available back then, i definitely would have considered that route.
There are a few other private spaces that do have either a barn or an area for a tent that are in the area - I would love to sit down with you and go over what you are looking for and give you some ideas!
That being said, Misty Farm is a beautiful venue as well (they are booked for much of next year's Saturdays though)!
Good luck with the planning!
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