It is common not to have weddings during Lent unless under special circumstances, i.e. someone is going off to war, dying, etc. Lent is supposed to be a time of thoughtful reflection and therefore exuberant celebration is contrary, so if a wedding is allowed, it is usually encouraged to be an understated affair, with little or no singing, flowers, fanfare, etc.
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