You could do it at one of the gorgeous parks in DP and bring food potluck style or maybe from El Torito (in the harbor). We brought platters from El Torito to our house for our rehearsal dinner party. The park idea does involve bringing everything so is alot more work and planning so it depends how helpful your bridesmaids are if you are having any. You could see how much Canon's would be, Chart House is probably more expensive than Canon's, if you wanted a restaurant. Vue restaurant at the Marriott is probably on the more expensive side as well. Maybe take a day and visit the harbor and walk around inquiring with the various restaurants there what they would charge. Proud Mary's has a great outdoor eating area as do a couple of other restaurants in the harbor. I know also that the Ocean Institute will allow parties so could also be an interesting option. How exciting! Good luck!
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