I also am getting married and have a child. I live in Kalamazoo, Mi but my parents pastor in Toledo is marrying us. His name is Pastor carey from Westgate Chapel. If any pastor knows your situation it would be him, I was told his son had a child before he was married also. I don't have his phone number or email but you can google Westgate Chapel and it should come up. Hope this helps (and I hope he can help also!!)
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